The Importance of Loving Yourself

One of the most Valuable things you can do in your Lifetime,
is to start Loving Yourself.

When you Love Yourself,
you can love others.

When you Love Yourself,
you can Heal.

Still, for some people, it’s one of the hardest things to do.

We grow up, with the impression that loving ourselves, is selfish.
We learn that we must put other’s need before ours.
We learn that we must adapt into frames put up by society,
in order to be a part of a family, and our community.
We learn to become what is expected from us.

Disconnected from our Source Energy.

Allowing fear to enter into our reality.
Along with judgement.
Anger.
Guilt.
Shame.
Feelings of not being good enough.

We ended up experiencing this world as hostile place.

What we see in the news every day, is a world in fear.

Our Souls are trying to wake us up, and make us realize what is going on.

Our Souls know what we need to do.
But many of us have become so much disconnected,
that we won’t trust in our own guidance.

We have lost our Knowing of Who We Truly Are.
Beings of Love.

What we can do

The single most effective thing we can do,
in order to help our World turn into a better place,
is to Heal Ourselves.

Everything starts from within us.

And we can’t truly heal, before we start Loving Ourselves.

For some people, this might be challenging.
Like all changes are.
But rest assured, it’s not as hard as you may think it is.

And as you will soon see,
it’s so much Worth it.

When you start loving yourself,
you will start to feel and experience:

More at Peace
Happier
Inspired
Grounded
More Connected
More Loved
More Loving
Feeling good with yourself
More trust in yourself
Your health is improving
Having more understanding
Having more compassion
Easier to forgive yourself and others
More good things happen to you
Life goes more easy and smoothly
Hope and Faith are restored in Humanity, the World.

There is a saying:
You can only experience true love from others, when you love yourself.
You can only give true love to others, when you love yourself.

When we chose Love,
We recognize the Divine Being in all of us.

Think of how wonderful this World can be,
when we chose to live from Love,
instead of fear.

We are all in this together.

How to Love Yourself

♦ Be willing to change.

♦ Look yourself in the mirror, and say to yourself:
«I accept myself for who I am, right now.»
«I am good enough, just as I am.»
«I love myself.»
«I am a loving Being.»
«I am worthy of receiving, and giving, Love.»

♦ Allow yourself to see your fears, and heal them.
You can read my post How to Release your fears and Heal your emotions for easy guidance on how you can heal what might come up.

♦ Forgive yourself, and others.
By holding feelings of regret, anger, fear, worry, shame, guilt, or grief,
you are blocking your own Life Energy from coming into You.
It’s like cutting of the Oxygen when you are breathing.
You can read my post on Forgiveness here:
Forgiveness – Set yourself Free.

♦ Stop criticizing yourself, and others.
You are good enough.
Just as you are.
The same applies for everyone else.

♦ Do something nice for yourself, every day.
It can be anything you like.
Enjoying your morning coffee in silence.
Taking a hot bath.
Make a nice dinner with your family or friends.
And, enjoy it!
See my post: What Fills you Up?

♦ Remember, You are not your problems.

♦ You are more valuable than you think.
What talents do you have, that you might not see for yourself?
Usually, when we are surrounded by people who are substantially different from us,
we tend to forget about our strong points.
Check out Your Treasure Box.

♦ What are you Grateful for today?
Think of what you like about yourself.
Have you thought about how beautiful your smile is,
or how much better your daily life is with it?
Or, just be grateful to yourself for being willing to love yourself, one day at a time.
By being Grateful, we open up for Source Energy to enter us.

♦ Give yourself some time in Meditation to Release Tension and Self Healing.
Think of it as your own Spa time.
It’s completely free, and you don’t have to go anywhere.

Remember

You are Worthy
of taking care of yourself,
and Loving Yourself.

If anyone gets upset with your choice to start Loving Yourself more,
tell yourself that this is okay.

Whoever gets upset, are reminded of their own fears and feelings of not Being Enough.

They are feeling they might be sacrificing themselves, for others, or the family.

At times we have to put up with things in Life that we don’t like.

Don’t judge them for how they feel or behave towards you.

Be willing to see the situation from their perspective too.

Forgive them.
And forgive yourself.

By starting Loving Yourself,
you can show those around you, that you are
“One more step closer to Heal the World.”

 

Love and Light

 

 

 

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